A Worthy Distraction
The past two weeks have not been normal around here. Two weeks ago, we were preparing to attend Matt's funeral. Tonight is Caitlin's. She did not make it. From what I understand, her brain continued to swell and she began to have strokes. Through an MRI, earlier in the week, the doctors determined that she was not going to wake up. In their last bit of bravery and compassion, the family decided to donate her organs, before taking her off of life support.I'm still trying to wrap my brain around this. It's surreal. My heart weeps for the family. It is my worst nightmare times two. As I made cookies for Matt's viewing, I cried. As I made cupcakes for Caitlin's, I was in shock. It feels like a bad, made-for-tv movie.
We went to the viewing last night. I had no idea what to say to the family. No words could come to my lips. I just shook her father's hand, and patted his back, with tears in my eyes. We communicated through our tears instead.
In a bit of trying to keep myself distracted this week, after we learned of Caitlin's turn for the worse, I made some newborn hats. These hats were made from shirts (which were about to be donated) and sent to Mama to Mama. It is a worthwhile cause and a good distraction for the week.
Some good things can come tragedies. Caitlin's organs have been donated to others awaiting transplants and some newborn babies will have hats upon their heads to help maintain their body temperature.
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(((HUGS)))
I am so sorry for everything you are going through. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and Caitlin's family as they struggle to go own after this tragedy. (((HUGS))) to you and your family.
Hugs to you and prayers for them, Lera.
(and what sweet little baby hats for some lucky little ones.) xoxo
Hugs and prayers for you all.
God Bless you and your friends right now.
Such sweet baby hats. How thoughtful of you to find a distraction that was so selfless.
Sometimes it's easier to send a card later telling them how moving the service was so they can read it later in their own time as they travel the cycles of grief. You were there for them Lera and that will mean a lot.
Go hug your children Lera- it will make you feel a whole lot better.
The hats are a great idea. For me, contribution is a great combatant of feeling helpless!
How very sad. Bless their hearts. I will certainly remember them in my prayers.
My prayers are with you and her family. {{HUGS}}
The hats are great and a very worthy distraction.
You already know how sad about your loss.
and btw, those hats are cute!!! I love the little knot at the top. my oldest had a little hat like that when he was born it was my favorite.
I love the newborn hats. Such a worthy cause, and what a great idea to distract yourself by serving others.
Great work on the mama to mama initiative! I have had my eye on that and I might crank some out tomorrow.